Book Club November 2016

About 6 months ago, I picked My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry to read for book club. We all really enjoyed it and I felt like I had found a new favorite author. Because of how much we enjoyed that one, Denise picked his first novel A Man Called Ove for this month.
 

By: Fredrik Backman
Published Year: 2014
Publisher: Atria Books
Pages: 337

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Summary (Provided by Goodreads): A grumpy yet loveable man finds his solitary world turned on its head when a boisterous young family moves in next door.

Meet Ove. He's a curmudgeon, the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him the bitter neighbor from hell, but must Ove be bitter just because he doesn't walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time?

Behind the cranky exterior there is a story and a sadness. So when one November morning a chatty young couple with two chatty young daughters move in next door and accidentally flatten Ove's mailbox, it is the lead-in to a comical and heartwarming tale of unkempt cats, unexpected friendship, and the ancient art of backing up a U-Haul. All of which will change one cranky old man and a local residents' association to their very foundations.

                                                                                 What I thought

Ove is a 59 year old man (although presented as if he is older) who recently lost his wife and is trying to figure out how to live without her. He has never liked people but has always believed in doing what is right. When new neighbors move in, they start to influence his life in ways he never knew he wanted.

Ove is one of my favorite characters I’ve read in a while. He is the grumpiest man ever and it cracked me up. I picture him shuffling along grumbling to himself and then he sees someone not doing something write and just goes “idiot” before grabbing it and doing it himself. He could have ended up being annoying or frustrating, but because he truly has a good heart, he's just endearing. Ove is just a true person and he never has hidden motives to his actions. It was refreshing to read about a character who was unapologetically himself.

I really really enjoyed this book. Yet again, Backman does an amazing job with multiple characters. Even though Ove is the only one who you receive the perspective of, I felt like I got to know all of the secondary characters intimately. Backman writes stories about how lives can influence other lives and he does it so well. These seemingly ordinary moments become influential and life changing. This book was humorous and touching, a balance that Backman manages well in his writing.

                                                                      What Book Club Thought

For the most part everyone enjoyed this book. One topic of discussion that came up was how suicide was incorporated into the story. Ove attempts suicide multiple times throughout the book and it almost becomes a bit of a joke. One of the book club members was uneasy about this choice of storyline. I found it interesting because until she mentioned it, I didn’t realize that I had almost started skimming those parts going “yeah, yeah, how is it going to fail this time?”  I wasn’t offended by the off handed way that suicide was written about or dealt with in this book, but I could see how someone might be. Either way, this whole story made for an interesting discussion and I would highly recommend it for a book club read.

December Book: Talking As Fast As I Can: From Gilmore Girls to Gilmore Girls, and Everything in Between By: Lauren Graham

Book Club Date: December 11 2016
 

October 2016 Favorites

Books

Little Boy Blue By: M.J Aldridge (Review)

Kids of Appetite By: David Arnold (Review)

Faithful By: Alice Hoffman (Review)

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets By: J.K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban By: J.K. Rowling

A Tragic Kind of Wonderful By: Eric Lindstrom

The Angel’s Share By: J.R. Ward

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire By: J.K. Rowling

What Light By: Jay Asher

A Man Called Ove By: Fredrik Backman
 

Favorite Book I Read This Month: Excluding the Harry Potter books which will always be my favorite, I think my favorite read this month was A Man Called Ove. His character is one of my favorites and Backman’s writing is solid yet again in this unique story. If you haven’t read any of Backman’s books yet you need to start!
 

Beauty

I had a few old favorites that I rediscovered, specifically the Sunday Riley Good Genes serum. I forgot how much my skin likes this product. Considering how expensive it is, it’s one of those products that you feel like you better see results, and this one follows through. I’m still working my way through a sample that I received, but if I continue to see results I might splurge and treat myself for the holidays.

Buys

Harry Potter

This month I bought the illustrated copy of Chamber of Secrets, and as an anniversary present I received the full hardback set of the UK books. All of the new Harry Potter’s that I accumulated this month are beautiful! I love them and I love that I got them in time for my re-read that I’m currently completing.

Miscellaneous

Pitch

I know it’s only a few episodes in, but this show is so good! I would never consider myself a baseball fan, so I was a little apprehensive about giving this show a short. After watching This is Us and knowing that Pitch is written by the same person, I decided to give it a shot and it is great! The writing is so strong and the actors are great. Mark-Paul Gosselaar is so solid in this show. I love absolutely everything.

I know it’s a bit of a short favorites this month, but it’s been a bit busy and with the holiday season coming up, I’ve been trying not to spend much.

Play! By Sephora October 2016

Play! By Sephora is a monthly subscription box by Sephora. It costs $10 a month and you received 5 beauty and skincare samples plus a perfume sample each month. Previously, you needed to put yourself onto a wait-list and wait to receive an email before you could subscribe, as they were rolling it out to limited quantities.

In addition to the products, Sephora includes a booklet that includes information about the product, the brand, and then tips of how to use the products. Also at the back of the book is a Play! PASS. This Pass gives you a complimentary one-on-one session with a Sephora artist as well as an extra 50 Beauty Insider points when you scan the pass at the register with any purchase. If you have the Sephora app, you can also scan the images of the products to learn more about them.

Previously, everyone received the same exact box. They had a few months where they had two different boxes that went out, and this month it seems like they have a variety of different boxes that went out following their theme of The Cool Cut.

As a heads up, the boxes are a little bit larger and will not fit into a small apartment sized mailbox. For reference, a Birchbox box is able to fit almost perfectly into my mailbox, but this one has no chance. Therefore, I’ve had to go to the post office both months to pick up my box.

This month the products I received were as follows:

Smashbox Always on Matte Liquid Lipstick in Driver’s Seat (Full-size $24)

The first lip product in this box is a matte liquid lipstick by Smashbox. Smashbox is one of my favoties brands so I was really excited about this product. I was a bit nervous that since it was a matte liquid lipstick that it would be drying as a lot of them are. When I first applied it, it took a minute or two to get used to and I was worried that it was drying, but after having it on for a few minutes I completely forgot about it. I also like that the applicator is meant to be used as both a liner and an applicator. They state that you should use the pointy part to line your lips and then the larger part to fill in. I did as they stated and I worked really nicely. I also love this color! It’s perfect for fall and not at all one that I would have picked for myself.

The Estee Edit Flash Photo Gloss (Full-size $20)

The second gloss is from the nest Estee Edit line by Estee Lauder. Estee Lauder is my favorite skin care line but I’m not typically crazy about their makeup. This gloss is an iridescent blue that is meant to highlight the blue tones in your teeth to make them appear brighter in photos. I tried it on over the Smashbox product and it didn’t seem to do anything. I don’t mind the smell which is usually something I can’t stand from Estee Lauder lip products, but I think this might be a gimmick product that doesn’t really live up to what it promises.

Derek Lam 10 Crosby Silent St (Full-size $95)

Each box contains a perfume and this month’s is by Derek Lam. The notes are just stated as white musks. It’s an interesting scent but it reminds me more of something that my mother would choose than I would. I will probably pass this to her and see if she likes it.

Farmacy Skin Dew Hydrating Essence Mist (Full-size$44)

This hydrating mist is meant to tone skin and restore radiance while also hydrating the skin. The scent is spa-like and includes Echinacea, which is known to promote healthy looking skin. I’ve always wanted to have a refreshing mist similar to this in the summer or when I travel, so I will probably hold on tothis. It might come in handy in the winter with our dry weather, so we’ll see! I will warn you tha the sprayer is not great as it gives a bit of an intense burst as opposed to a light, even, mist.

Drunk Elephant T.L.C Framboos Glycolic Night Serum (Full-size $90)

I love serums! I didn’t use them for a very long time, but when I discovered them and started to use them I was amazed by everything they did for my skin. This particular serum is a glycolic serum that is meant to refine and resurface the skin. Glycolic acid is a chemical exfoliant that is known to brighten skin and get rid of dark spots. Apparently, Drunk Elephant is cruelty-free, vegan, gluten-free, and noncomedogenic as well as a supporter of the International Elephant Foundation. It’s always fun to find products that work well and are ethical. I’ve been using the Sundae Riley Good Genes serum at night and love it, but it’s a bit expensive. I’m hoping this one might be jus as good because its slightly less expensive.

Madam C.J. Walker Scent & Shine Coconut Oil (Full-size $26)

Coconut oil has been a holy grail product in the beauty world for a while now. I haven’t ever used it, but I’ve been hearing about how well it works on both hair and skin for a while now. This specific product claims to help to decrease frizz, define curls, and enhance shine. The scent isn’t just coconut, but has a floral aspect to it as well. It’s a bit interesting, but it’s not strong which is nice.  I’ve found in the past that a lot of oils make my hair shiny without controlling anything else. As a result, it just makes my hair look greasy.